Dunno wat to put here..
Fasting month is fast approaching. Supposedly to begin this coming Friday. I dunno why but this year I seem to be welcoming this season instead of feeling otherwise. Can't wait to be overwhelmed by the unique atmosphere this period will offer. In addition this is the only time where i got to eat dates..not that I can't eat on any other time of the year but it's juz tt its easier to buy during this time due to the occasion...other than during this month..the only place I can think of where I can buy them is Arab Street..and its quite a distance and not easily accessible to me...To non-muslims..u might wanna try not eating for 12 hours..its an experience...really...and from what I heard its good for ur health...and dates too..yeah..highly nutritionuos I supposed. Dates are like steroids or energy bars..gives lasting energy and it makes fasting much easier...man, they are so cool...cheap yet effective..value for money...
Juz realized today that I like to 'stone' pretty frequently...haiz...and I don't even know why..get distracted so easily...and it's wating my time..I better do something about it..real soon and fast...before it becomes out of control...anybody with the antidote for 'stoning' please tell me..I would really like to know..
I was reading the joke book that I gave my mom for her birthday which is my birthday also...and found out that its quite good..didn't know that before giving it to my mom...so maybe I'll share one of them...
When a woman is 18, she is football-22 men going after her.
When a woman is 28, she is a hockey ball-8 men going after her.
When a woman is 38, she is a golf ball-1 man hitting her.
When a woman is 48, she is like a ping-pong ball-2 men pushing to each other.
At 20- A man is like a coconut ; so much to offer,so little to give.
At 30- He is like a durian; dangerous but delicious.
At 40- He is like a watermelon; big, round and juicy.
At 50- He is like a manadrin orange; the season comes once in a year.
At 60- He is just like a raisin; dried out,wrinkled and cheap.
Kind of interesting though...not really funny I guess..but something worth looking at..
Other than humours, read about some meaningful stuff...something to ponder over...
3-WORD PHRASES
--I'll be there--
If you have ever had to call a friend in the middle of the night, to take a sick child to the hospital, or when your car has broken down some miles fom home, you will know how good it feels to hear the phrase "I'll be there". Being there for another person is the greatest gift we can give. When we are truly present for other people, important things happen to them and us. We are renewed in love and friendship.
We are restored emotionally and spiritually. Being there is at the core of civility.
--I miss you--
Perhaps more marriages could be saved and strenghtened if couples simply and sincerely said to each other "I miss you." This powerful affirmation tells partners that they are wanted, needed, desired and loved.
consider how ecstatic you would feel, if you received an unexpected phone call from your spouse in the middle of your work day, just to say, " I miss you."
--Count on me--
A friend is one who walks in when others walk out.
Loyalty is an essential ingredient for true friendship; it is the emotional glue that bonds people. Those that are rich in their relationships tend to be steady and true friends. When troubles come, a good friend is there indicating "you can count on me."
--Let me help--
The best of friends see a need and try to fill it. When they spot a hurt, they do what they can to heal it. Without being asked, they pitch in and help.
--Go for it--
We are all unique individuals. Don't try to get your friends to conform to your ideals. Support them in pursuing their interests, no matter how weird they seem to you. Everyone has dreams, dreams that are unique to that person only. Support and encourage your friends to follow their dreams. Tell them to " go for it".
--I love you--
Perhaps the most important three words that you can say. telling someone that you truly love them satisfies a person's deepest emotional needs. The need to belong, to feel appreciated and to be wanted. Your spouse, your children, your friends and you, all need to hear those three littele words. "I love you".
Not too difficult to understand right? I think it is conceivable...think about it...it may not be of use now but maybe it will in the later part of tour life...
I suddenly feel the need to say something to this group of people..those who thinks that commiting suicide is the best way to solve things. I admit I feel that feeling before..where your hopes are all pulverized and you are served with a thousand and one salvos of problems...I call this people "Earth quitters". Not a nice label to hold on to I guess...not that i know of any of these "Earth quitters" but I juz want to say that humans are given an amount of problems such that he or she is able to cope with it..I strongly believe that under no circumstances will it be otherwise..so don't give up in life... If you think that the world means nothing, think again. You might mean the world to someone else.
::: Everything is okay in the end. If it's not okay, then it's not the end :::
Juz realized today that I like to 'stone' pretty frequently...haiz...and I don't even know why..get distracted so easily...and it's wating my time..I better do something about it..real soon and fast...before it becomes out of control...anybody with the antidote for 'stoning' please tell me..I would really like to know..
I was reading the joke book that I gave my mom for her birthday which is my birthday also...and found out that its quite good..didn't know that before giving it to my mom...so maybe I'll share one of them...
When a woman is 18, she is football-22 men going after her.
When a woman is 28, she is a hockey ball-8 men going after her.
When a woman is 38, she is a golf ball-1 man hitting her.
When a woman is 48, she is like a ping-pong ball-2 men pushing to each other.
At 20- A man is like a coconut ; so much to offer,so little to give.
At 30- He is like a durian; dangerous but delicious.
At 40- He is like a watermelon; big, round and juicy.
At 50- He is like a manadrin orange; the season comes once in a year.
At 60- He is just like a raisin; dried out,wrinkled and cheap.
Kind of interesting though...not really funny I guess..but something worth looking at..
Other than humours, read about some meaningful stuff...something to ponder over...
3-WORD PHRASES
--I'll be there--
If you have ever had to call a friend in the middle of the night, to take a sick child to the hospital, or when your car has broken down some miles fom home, you will know how good it feels to hear the phrase "I'll be there". Being there for another person is the greatest gift we can give. When we are truly present for other people, important things happen to them and us. We are renewed in love and friendship.
We are restored emotionally and spiritually. Being there is at the core of civility.
--I miss you--
Perhaps more marriages could be saved and strenghtened if couples simply and sincerely said to each other "I miss you." This powerful affirmation tells partners that they are wanted, needed, desired and loved.
consider how ecstatic you would feel, if you received an unexpected phone call from your spouse in the middle of your work day, just to say, " I miss you."
--Count on me--
A friend is one who walks in when others walk out.
Loyalty is an essential ingredient for true friendship; it is the emotional glue that bonds people. Those that are rich in their relationships tend to be steady and true friends. When troubles come, a good friend is there indicating "you can count on me."
--Let me help--
The best of friends see a need and try to fill it. When they spot a hurt, they do what they can to heal it. Without being asked, they pitch in and help.
--Go for it--
We are all unique individuals. Don't try to get your friends to conform to your ideals. Support them in pursuing their interests, no matter how weird they seem to you. Everyone has dreams, dreams that are unique to that person only. Support and encourage your friends to follow their dreams. Tell them to " go for it".
--I love you--
Perhaps the most important three words that you can say. telling someone that you truly love them satisfies a person's deepest emotional needs. The need to belong, to feel appreciated and to be wanted. Your spouse, your children, your friends and you, all need to hear those three littele words. "I love you".
Not too difficult to understand right? I think it is conceivable...think about it...it may not be of use now but maybe it will in the later part of tour life...
I suddenly feel the need to say something to this group of people..those who thinks that commiting suicide is the best way to solve things. I admit I feel that feeling before..where your hopes are all pulverized and you are served with a thousand and one salvos of problems...I call this people "Earth quitters". Not a nice label to hold on to I guess...not that i know of any of these "Earth quitters" but I juz want to say that humans are given an amount of problems such that he or she is able to cope with it..I strongly believe that under no circumstances will it be otherwise..so don't give up in life... If you think that the world means nothing, think again. You might mean the world to someone else.
::: Everything is okay in the end. If it's not okay, then it's not the end :::