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Hardiness.

I was introduced to the true essence of the meaning of that word from Introduction to Psychology class. And I find that it is an area which is worth dedicating to. Improving on one's hardiness helps alot.


When going back there, I don't see it in them. And I question myself, what should I do to make these people see that they need to have this character. I've tried giving them the heat. But receive negative response. I suppose it's not clear to them its for their own good. Before them lies this one big concrete wall that shields them away from this message.

Actually, there are some other questions.

Weren't the trainings they had supposed to make them more resilient?
What's going to happen to them when they move on to the outside world?
What happened to making do with what you had?
What happened to being strong and facing challenges?


It is not necessarily physical. It's more of the mentality that I'm talking about.
Somehow, when they get 'smarter', they become weaker.


You might escape the heat now. But you may not survive the next one.
Denial is just postponing the problem.



I want to impart, yet they don't want to receive. Anyhow, at the end of the day, I'm not the one at the losing end. You are. You decide guys. You decide.



"Its more cruel out there."
-MSG Chun Keong,
ex-CSS NCC Company Sergeant Major

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